Free test · 15 minutes

The Love Style Test

Discover how you most naturally give and receive love across five distinct styles.

80 statements 15 minutes No signup One tap per answer

The test starts here — the first statement is on the right. Nothing to sign up for.

What it measures

The five love styles

✎
Words of Affirmation
Feeling loved through what is said out loud.
☐
Acts of Service
Feeling loved through what someone does for you.
◈
Receiving Gifts
Feeling loved through thoughtful, meaningful tokens.
◔
Quality Time
Feeling loved through undivided attention and presence.
How it works

Statements, and how far you lean

80 plain statements about how you show and want to receive care, each rated on a seven-point agree–disagree scale. There is no better or worse style — the useful information is which ones fit you most.

The result shows your primary style, and how the other four rank alongside it. Most people are a blend, with one or two that lead.

Self-reflection instruments built on Jungian-inspired ideas. They do not diagnose anything and are not a substitute for therapy.

1
Rate 80 statements
Agree or disagree, and how strongly. Five per screen.
2
Find your style
The one of five that scores highest is your leading style.
3
See the full profile
Most people lead with one or two, with the rest still present.
Example result

Quality Time, leading

Quality Time leads clearly, with Words of Affirmation a strong second and the rest more evenly spread.

Illustrative example, not your own result
Quality Time Very high
Words of Affirmation High
Acts of Service Moderate
Physical Touch Moderate
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